Tis the season to war over words. Once again the media is setting aside time to discuss the “war on Christmas” From what I understand it is an annual “war” around this time of year. On one extreme side is group of people who feel their rights are being trampled on by having to see the words “god”, “Christmas”, or even “Christ” everywhere when they do not believe in any of it. On the other extreme side are those who would joyfully shove their beliefs down everyone’s throat, but demand special rights not to be attacked back. It is interesting how Christians are willing to verbally attack others, but not so willing to accept verbal attacks back.
Where do I stand? Stuck in the middle of course, for I do not side with either, but nor do I feel it right to force either side to follow the edicts of the other. If someone comes up to me and says “Merry Christmas!” I have no issue returning the greeting. I am not Christian, but as long as it is said with love, then I have no issue saying it. It is a saying to offer love, peace, and joy and this time of the year. It is not merely the time of year to celebrate religious faith, but a time to celebrate life, family, love, joy, friendship and so much more.
I would think it would behoove the “Religious Right” to focus on more important matters this time of the year rather than writing columns or appearing on news programs discussing this so called war. Now is the time of year to focus on those who do not have homes, or food, or enough money for Christmas. We should focus on kids who have suffered from mistreatment, abuse, neglect, etc. This is the time of the year for the “Religion of Love” to really shine. Instead we are getting them going on T.V. griping because some stores are trying to cater to everyone – which is Business – and not just one group of people. Or griping because there are those who have taken advertisements out declaring a “Secular Holiday”.
Conversely I think it also behooves “Secularists” to remember those who do not have a home, food, or money to buy their kids presents. You want to complain about the Religious, when they are celebrating a holiday that is a very large affair. It is a part of our society, however no one is forcing you to say Merry Christmas. Take heart in the Holiday, by giving of your time. Giving gifts to others, hugging a friend or family member. This is the time of the year for the positives in Humanity to shine. One does not have to be Christian to celebrate in the joy of the season.
So basically I am trying to say to both sides “Shut Up” and quit your whining! Everyone has a right to see what they wish to say…that’s one of the many freedoms of being American. Christians have a right to say Christ, and secularists have to right to say there is no god.
Merry Christmas
Happy Holidays
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